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For someone like this, you should try everything to get rid of him, not get him back. There are many mentally healthy guys, why would you want to mess your life with a guy who needs a therapist. Life...
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This is the disclaimer he gave you. He will be back, and he will assume you know you cant really have him. Mark my words.
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Yeah, my former guy was like that. You cant tell the signs at first, because they come on so strong, you get blindsighted (that’s a flag, i know now). You can actually have a friendship with a guy...
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I really liked him and was blindsided and hurt when he dumped me. I am trying to process how I missed the signals that he was going to pull away and what it has to do with being a love addict. I am...
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just wondering. he broke off with you. does it make sense for you to get into an in depth analysis? even if u do get answers what will do with them?
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Met online. Dated for seven weeks. Became intimate after a month. Many things seemed to be heading toward a committed relationship as he was helping to steer it that way: talking about the future,...
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Also, it’s only a waste if you don’t learn from it and keep making the same mistake. If this woke you up to learning an important lesson that will make you a happier person who is capable of much more...
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the first guy who dumped the original poster sounds more like a love avoidant. But these labels are just that… labels. Even people who are diagnosed with a mental disorder in the DSM...
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I told him we could not be friends and wished him well with his new lady. We tried to be a friends for a day but it was horrible. I just don’t understand how I was so happy and felt love, but he never...
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@Lisa, you ONLY wasted 6 months, be thankful for that. You could have wasted 2-3 years. It really hurts right now, I understand, but in the long run, you are better off without him. He is not a good...
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@Soni, 100% agree with your advice. Ladies, please do yourselves a favor and stop trying to analyze the men you date. You’re wasting your own time and energy. Even if you are a psychologist and...
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Hi Michaela-Sorry this happened but now you are wiser-all will be better in time. Rose-I swear we dated the same guy-lol. Exact thing! Kim-Not a good idea to “fall in love with potential”-if the guy...
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Hi. I’m so glad I found this group. I dated a love addict for six months until he broke up with me last month for another woman. He says now that he tried to love me that he wanted me to be the one...
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Hey Michaela, I know this was a few months ago, but thought I’d chime in. I literally had the exact same thing happen to me (minus the confession of love/sex addiction), but I believe this to be a...
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I think I dated one in January, he was the most amazing person for a whole month, same thing, presents, flowers, expensive dates that lasted hours,millions of texts and phone calls, excellent...
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Ha! I think I moved emotionally like a turtle and that was the hard part for the love addict, who, I suspect, took my slower reveal as love avoidance. But his opening up of himself was fast as were...
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The answer to all this I cannot stress enough is to really get to know someone before you jump in the lake. Sooooo many women hear the words they want to hear and dive in….but that is very dangerous....
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Hi there, I guess I am what you would describe as a typical ‘love addict’ and my boyfriend of just under a year is definitely more of a ‘love avoidant’. It is true that this pairing is a common and...
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Thank you all! It helps to get more perspective as I was feeling really hurt and confused. He dumped me on Monday and I am leaving a on a work trip today (one of the triggers, I believe, led to his...
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I just experienced something similar, for the 3rd time. Except these 3 guys did not call to explain; they just eventually disappeared – for seemingly no good reason: no fight, no misunderstanding;...
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